*sigh* happy new year
Oh the horror!
The triumphant spirit I had this time last year has given way to contrition this year. If I don’t want to feel like this in 2011, some things are going to have to change.
I made a deal with myself that I could keep my head in the sand until the end of December. I allowed myself to turn a blind eye to the hard numbers, buy whatever Christmas presents I wanted, eat lunch out if I felt like it, ignore contributing to my retirement account or my stock purchases, ignore my debt reduction goals… I did all of that. I am done with that. This has been such a mediocre year! I feel like I haven’t moved forward and like I’ve abandoned my goals.
I’ve been so busy with my new work hours and other activities, and I used that as an excuse to slack off on my diligence with checking the numbers and blogging about my progress or the lack thereof. I even finished 2009 with credit card debt because of a house improvement and a very expensive engagement gift I wanted to buy.
Which brings me to my newest motivation – marriage and babies are only as imminent as my (our) ability to handle our money correctly and progressively. I have a renewed commitment to debt reduction. The credit card debt will be gone by the end of the month. The medical bills will be gone by June. The car note will be gone by June 2011, and only because we have to save for our ceremony, since we will not incur debt for it. by June 2011 – mark my words – my only debt will be the mortgage and the student loans, provided the Lord helps us to avoid emergencies.
Regarding savings, I have found that it’s harder to keep the money I save. This year, I wound up spending what I saved so that I can avoid using credit cards and avoid raiding the savings I had already. I’m not completely uncomfortable with this, but I would like to increase my savings. So, I’m counting on the 7.6% raise I got at the end of the year and the 401K program at work, which kicks in for me in a few months, to help me feel like I’m making saving progress.
My challenges to debt reduction and savings will be home decorations (we’ve made improvements/repairs but hardly any decorations) and the wedding ceremony. I hope to do everything for the cheapest prices we can get, and I’m willing to compromise on those things in order to achieve the goals I want. I have to use better time management and abandon my excuses if I want to do that! So here goes…
Oh and one more thing, I told myself that I would only update the value of my home once a year, so there it is. My actual net worth progress has been kind of stagnant, and the bump seen this month is due primarily to the increase in the market value of the house (which I listed conservatively last year).
